Thanks ladies. You've made me feel better. If/when I get a job, I'll have a word with the carers. I've been using the centre for three years so they know I'm not a slackarse generally.

Plus, as a single mum, I do everything for the morning (and evening) routine so really, in the whole scheme of things, I guess having someone change DD2 out of her PJs isn't that big a deal. Astrid, I like the idea of me changing her once we get there, that could be another option too.