I've made an appointment with the Director of the centre for first thing Monday.
I am so torn and confused. I just can't stop thinking about what if DS has just made this up. The particular little boy in question frequently picks on DS and his friends. I have quite a few times asked DS "why did you do that?" when he has done something wrong here at home and he's relpied "__ made me do it" but then again if he's done that then where did he get this kind of sexual knowledge from anyway to pin on this little boy???

I can understand your concern here. However, i don't believe this is something that your DS would have made up. This kind of behaviour (by the other kids) is a learnt behaviour and to me sounds like something they unfortunatly have experiences. While I understand that sex play is normal this type of behaviour is well and truely out of the norm.

You are doing the right thing by talking to the director of the CC. They need to know that this is happening so the appropriate people can be informed. They will also have a knowledge of how to gently talk to the kids without tainting thier story if it is actually abuse that is happening here.

I agree with all the PPs by informing and continuing to reinforce with your kids whats appropriate and whats not. I believe that talking about this kind of thing will may it not seem so tabu making it easier for them to talk to you about it if they or somone they know was put into a difficult situation.

A hard situation to be in. Let us know how you go hun. xx