Another child with hands on my child!

[dd311]

Ok where to start - I have my youngest at child care and for the most part this DD is going pretty well except that in the last week I've witnessed something that I wasnt' at all happy about and now my DH has seen it too.

When I went to pick up my kids all the kids come running as they do and one little girl says "Kyana your mummy is here you need to go now" and with this she proceeded to get hold of my daughter BY THE THROAT and shake her and try to drag her to me, I called out cause a carer was closer to her than me and took her hands off her and made her sit down and have a chat with her about the incident. I was not happy at all but kind of put it down to a one off but the carer's were abit blazzae about the situation so I didn't want to overreact about it.

Well yesterday DH went to pick up the kids and he told me he was not happy about something that had happened and then went on to discribe an almost identical situation involving exactly the same girl and my Kyana!

I'm concerned cause this has happened in front of us how much is this going on when we're not around - DH said the carer's weren't overly fused about it either - BUT WE ARE - I'm about to call the creche but am a bit nervous cause I've already had an issue with one of the carer's and my other DD and that Carer is now leaving (thank goodness) - I'm just not sure if this is what kids do or if the creche should be taking more of a stand about it I think more than anything their flippant behaviour to it is concerning me as well - or are they not supposed to show any emotion in these cases - Do I have the right to say that I don't want that child anywhere near my little one or what?

Some thoughts would help heaps I want to make this call today.

xxdd