I put Cooper in 2 days a week when I was working now I am not but I wouldnt change it, it has helped us both so much, him to gain some independence and time with children his own age as well as learning to adapt to change ect, and me some time to do what I need to do stress free. I cant believe some people were rude you though in the end it is your decision and comes down to what suits you and your family.