I think its a very valid concernt hat your child may miss out because the carer has her own bub of the same age. I guess I would be interestedt o see if there is no other FDC available then it would be a matter of see ing how it goes & if you feel your bub is happy in her care?

But I would have the same worry that her bub will get tended to over yours. But then I would have the same concerns if it was my 3 yr old & her 7 month old. I would still worry that her baby is getting more attention then everyone else.