Well I took DD to docters today along with a urine sample. They tested that and said there appeared to be no sign of infection and also did a blood sugar reading (boy did she scream the surgery down over a tiny *****!) and that came back fine too. So according to Doc we just need to try and get her to "hold it in" more and retrain her bladder.

Thanks ladies for all your words of advice. I feel much more reassured now.