I appreciate reading everyones views about his topic, but my delimma is DH and I have TOTALLY opposite views, and get very heated and passionate about our way, and have discussed this on and off for 7 years,when our first children were born, and have not managed to agree yet.
I disagree, as there is no religous grounds, for us, and there is no medical reason, IYKWIM, I think you dont whip out the tonsils, or the appendix just in case. and as a nurse have seen some of the side effects of things that go wrong.
DH on the other hand is adamant that his son, will look like him, I mean I think this is a lame excuse for surgery, I mean would you get you child operated on, so they had the same nose, or ear shape etc??? NO so to me this is the same, BUT he is very very very determined, I dont know how to cope with this, I now have a 2month old son ( first after 3 girls) and the subject hasnt been broached for 2 months, but I dont know what to say when it comes up again, I have tried the logical approaches,

DELIMMA!!!