At the end of the day what everyone else thinks is irrelevant, because even if they do get their son done, they have their own reasons for doing it - it certainly doesn't make it any easier though when you are sure you know what you want, only to get so many conflicting opinions. And I honestly can't see boys picking on one another about who is and isn't done. Once they leave school they will be amongst many different demographics of males throughout their life so it really isn't going to matter.

For what its worth though. We decided not to get our first child done if it was a boy (and he was) but since then Dh has often said that he wishes that we did - not for any particular reason that he can pinpoint, but just that if we had our time again he would have pushed for it more than he did. So I think that if you decided to not do it, even if you actually would prefer it, then you may also regret not doing it later on.

You have decided to do it because it is the right thing for your son.