Hi there,

My DP & I were in the same dilemna as U both ... Only thing is I was leaning more towards NOT doing it.

.... Reason being i didn't feel right about altering someone's body part. I felt that wasn't my decision to make seeing it's not my body to tamper with in the first place.

I spoke with my older sister as she has a son AND she felt the same way.

She said it is so easy for them to clean ... And she couldn't understand why most parents use that as the reason to do it other than religious reason for some cultures.

Anyway, we decided NOT TO ... And when I gave birth we ended up with a little girl