Honestly I can see both sides and there's a lot to be said about little boys looking like daddy.

I really don't have an answer because DH isn't circumcised so it wasn't an issue with our DS.

I think the best bet would be for both of you, to discuss it with a Dr together.

IMO circumcision is unnecessary and I've never had a problem with DH "cleanliness" in 10 years. So I think the old notion that uncut men are dirty is well outdated and not a reality now a days.

But on the flip side I see where a father might want to carry on the "tradition".

Sorry I didn't really help but I just wanted to say I can see a reason for both.

hope you both come to a decision that you're comfortable with.