DH and I are "against" circumcision but tbh I had never thought about it - so I was/am against it but that's not because I'm really informed about it iykwim?

Anyway, my Mum told me recently that she had heard reports about circumcision reducing the chances of cancer and HIV, and asked if we had thought more about doing it for DS. My answer - DS is unlikely to get sick with either before he's old enough to make the decision himself. I'll help him become informed when he's older, but if he's ever circumcised it'll be because he's decided to. Don't know if that logic would help with your DH as well? Your boy/s could always get it done when they're older and can consent themselves.