I am still stalking this thread just waiting to join in

I just wanted to say gigi - when I left my ex dd was 3. And you know, life was SO MUCH easier than the day to day stress of being with someone who I knew I shouldnt have been with. FJ's and Beatrix's posts above are spot on. 50/50 doesnt always work (ie you cant cut a fridge in half!!) but things work out, they really really do........ I left under the worst of financial circumstances and am happy to share if you wanna PM me. Its easy to put together a pc, if you were in sydney we could get you on the net with stuff that DH has lying around!! OR you can always grab a lil laptop for under $500 these days.....

Anyway, the point of me coming in here - have any of you guys seen the Xmas nappy being offered by panda baby? ITs SOOOOOOOOOOOOO cute!!!!!