Hi oh sending so many hugs your way.
We have an 11month old son who also has reflux. Ever since he was born he would vomit nearly all his feeds up. He was never unhappy with the vomitting but I was....
After many doctors and child health nurse visits he was diagnosed with reflux at 6months.
I had to stop breastfeeding him as half the problem was I had too much milk. I could express 300-400ml each side 4times a day. Imagine how much he was getting then and no wonder he vomitted it back up.
I expressed for 3months and thickened his milk with karicare thickner and he stopped vomitting nearly instantly. He is also on a medication called Domperidone (motilium) 3times a day. It encourages the food to go through his system rather than sit in his belly. He hasn't vomitted since 6months old when we thickened his milk and gave him this medication.
We tried everything to stop him vomitting but nothing worked until this.
I am not suggesting that medications are always the way to go, just wanted to tell you that this is what has worked for us.
I know it doesn't help now but it does get better..
Hugs
Shannon