Thank you so much for all your replies, and sharing your stories.

Although, you might co-sleep in different ways, i can see that the ways you have developed work for you, and we will find the way that works for us.

I wasn't worried so much about the sex side of it, but similar to LuluHB i just love the staying in the same bed, knowing he is there, and cuddles and touches. I have a shift working partner, like many others (there are heaps of us), and although sometimes it is nice to starfish, we both sleep better when we are both there.

Thanks again,

Kate