I know that this isnt crying to sleep, but im not sure where to put this.

I dont like to let MJ cry, if she's playing, needing a feed or in bed... despite people telling me that i am creating a rod for my back or 'spoiling' her

Anyway, when we are in the car, if she needs a feed, she crys, sometimes she will just grizzle, othertimes she will get really worked up... If i am 10 mins from home, i just try and settle her (whilst driving, shushing and giving her toys at the lights etc) or whoever is in the car with me will play or talk to her...

What i am trying to ask is, should i pull over and give her a feed, or just let her go, sometimes she will cry herself to sleep, but i feel awful as i wouldnt do this if we were doing anything else.
Am i being a terrible Mummy?

What do you do?

Thanks