as long as she is safe then i think when you are driving then that is the exception.... of course you could pull over but i think if you're almost home its a tad overboard (just my opinion).... i have pulled over before on longer drives, and found it only prolonged the agony, she would settle in my arms and then get hysterical again once we were driving...

once they are older it ges ALOT easier as you can talk to them and explain that you're driving and you're almost home, and distract them with things to look out for out the window, or a special cd they love etc etc..... it DOES get easier.... start teaching her language NOW, it makes life a whole lot easier, i could explain things to dd from the age of around 12 months and she understood everything i was saying... what a relief. a communication barrier is just one of the biggest stresses i think with having a bub.