Just to echo other statements. This is the rod for your back you are creating:
When your child is older, she knows she can turn to you for support. So you'll be stuck talking to her can comforting her ALL the time, even as a teen or even worse and adult.
When your child is older, she knows she can trust you. So you'll be stuck listening to her secrets and giving advice that she'll probably listen to.
When you child is older, she'll be confident and comfortable with herself. And who wants that in a child?
You're going to spoil that child - you will ruin her nature by making her generally happy, trusting and confident. Children are not made for this level of abuse and spoiling. They are made to be ignored; being alone and unwanted builds "character", don'tchknow?
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