True, Liz, I guess when I really think about it the reason DS's night feed bothers me is mainly comparison (and therefore feeling like a "failure"). While I don't love getting up in the middle of the night, it certainly is a special bonding time too, and it doesn't really cause any significant sleep deprivation.

I think the other reason it bothers me is that I worry that if I don't do something, he will never outgrow it himself and I will be doing this for several more years- which does bother me.