Hi,

Don't know that I can help too much - I officially don't *do* mother guilt. No time. There are lots of things I wish I'd done differently, but I do the best I can. My kids seem to forgive me fairly easily - so best I forgive myself, and try to do things differently next time.
When my first was little I found this a hard concept to deal with - but soonish you will need to include Savannah in mealtimes with yourself and your DH. She will need to learn to sit up at the table and eat her dinner, learn some manners (by example) how to use cutlery, chat and share her days events, and see how you and her dad share the day's events.
Now, I wouldn't do anything OTHER than have the whole family sit up together for a meal. Even if sport and part-time work interrupt some nights, we still do the dinner thing several times a week.
It works best when you have dinner pr-prepared so there is a minimum of fuss getting it out.
Just a thought.
Barb