Help - I don't want to do 'controlled crying'

[sloane]

cate, no real suggestions from me but wanted to offer a big because we're going through a similar thing here.

i can't bring myself to do controlled crying & i am working on the basis that what melskys says is true - things will work themselves out in their own time. in the meantime, i am doing whatever i need to & this seems to change as we go along as well (i.e. day sleeps in the pram one week, next week being held, rocking to sleep one week, feeding to sleep the next etc!)