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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jul 2007
    Adelaide, South Australia
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    Hi all.
    Well, I find myself back here with no real improvement in the sleeping situation to speak of. I am physically and emotionally exhausted. If anything, the sleeping (or lack of it) situation has become worse.
    Seven STILL wakes 1-2hrly overnight, occasionally wanting the boobies, sometimes not. She is so difficult to settle, and she SCREAMS the house down.
    To make things more complicated, I now work at night, from home a few days per week, but due to her constant night waking, DH is having to deal with it, and unfortunately he doesn't actually 'deal' very well.
    I am starting to think that Seven might actually have a sleep disorder! Has anyone heard of this in a baby as young as 12 months? I can't see any other explanataion, because we have tried EVERYTHING, and I mean everything!
    The whole thing is really putting a strain on our family life and I am starting to resent a little more each day, how much this little person is taking out of me.

    I know no one has a magical cure, but I just don't know what to do anymore.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    on cloud 9.....
    2,105

    Oh no Kell, sorry I don't have any advice. Just wanted to give you a huge cyber hug. xx

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Member

    May 2008
    1,110

    What happens if you feed her hourly for the 3-4 hours before bed? It might buy you a longer stretch before the waking starts.
    In a similar vein, the "no cry sleep solution" book has a list of foods that are high in tryptophan and hence promote sleepiness. Avocado, yoghurt and turkey are ones I remember - but it was a longish list.
    Big hugs from me too!
    Was just thinking - 90 minutes is a typical sleep cycle (ie. most people wake up every 90 minutes and then go back to sleep without effort). If Seven is waking up 90-minutely that suggests that she can't go to sleep without your help. There's a couple of threads of people with this problem - i'll try and find them.

    http://forums.bellybelly.com.au/foru...ngle-tear.html is pretty close
    Last edited by Kmn; August 9th, 2009 at 10:09 PM.

  4. #4
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    melbourne
    11,462

    have you had her allergy tested at all????
    reason i ask is a friend had huge issues with her baby (albeit a younger baby) and it turned out she had allergies to mums breastmilk and then some foods, she had to keep her off anything with salilytes (sp) in them (and i believe other foods), she noticed a huge improvement with bubs sleeping etc..

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Apr 2006
    In the ning nang nong...
    1,277

    Big hugs, Kell. You've got a lot on your plate at the moment. Jo, from our baby buddies group, went with her baby Xavier to a sleep school/centre in Brisbane and got some really good results. Maybe you could talk to her? Would there be a sleep school near where you are?