SB I am in the same boat DD used to self settle but for some reason she just stopped at about 5 months old and now will only fall asleep on the breast, in the car or the pram. its a PITA. I think it is partly cause those are the only time she will stay still! poo to your MCHN!
eta - the Karitane website has a sleep brochure with gentle settling techniques.. google it .... I have it here somewhere and keep meaning to try it but haven't got around to it yet