Just don't tend to go out at night, or at least limit it to very special occasions. At times it can be frustrating and annoying, but at the end of the day it is really only for a short time out of your adult life that you are doing it for. I understand being self concious about it, I used to be, but by my second I just go over it. Most people I know now have kids, so all are quite understanding when it comes to the night time stuff.