Oh hon and one more for good luck . And a whole block of chocolate.

I don't have an answer for you, but just wanted to let you know that you are NOT a loser. Babies aren't meant to be easy to figure out. Hell, adults aren't easy to figure out, and we can talk! You're a fantastic mum, it's just hard to remember that when you are exhausted and your little one is distressed.

And yes, it's just a bad day, that sounds like it has turned into a bad couple of weeks. But you're not stressing for no reason, the reason may not end up being something serious, but until you work out what it is that's bothering her so much, of course you'll stress. You're a mum, that's what we do. Doesn't make it any easier to bear at the time, but remember, this too will pass.