Hi ndj. I have been wondering how you have been doing. Firstly . I chose not to go to Trisillian. Just the thought of letting DS cry made me a mess and I felt the same way has you I don't want to risk losing his pleasant, happy nature and breaking the trust we have. We have worked too hard to get where we are. Harrison wouldn't go in his cot last time I posted about his sleeping. A week after that he started going to sleep in our bed. We brought him a comfort toy (igglepiggle) and he started sleeping in our bed, normally feeding to sleep or I lay him down beside me hold him firmly and pat his bottom softly or he lays on his tummy and I pat his back, and he cuddles igglepiggle. He has fallen out of bed Once, he cried I cried, but now he knows not to crawl off the bed. He won't go to sleep being held now. He is too heavy to hold and he is only 8.5kgs, I don't know how you do it. I was sleeping in a recliner as well before and I think that might have made things worst. Things might improve when your bed arrives. Changing sleeping places might be affecting his sleep also. You could find it fixes everything but don't hold me on this, just giving ideas. I hope things improve for you soon. Good luck