KrystieLove,

I can understand how annoying this kind of thing is.

What do you usually say in response? Maybe you should try and shut it down in a nice way. People that are saying these things are probably just thinking it must be hard to wake through the night and feed and they are probably thinking you are doing this for the first time (i think by ur sig?) and so maybe they are just trying to be genuinely helpful?Maybe just say yea ppl always say things like that and it gets a little upsetting or annoying etc and that you are all really happy with your routine etc

At your ds's age yea physically he probably doesn't need to wake that much so its probably an emotional comfort thing that he loves having cuddles with his mummy and you have obviously made the educated conscious decision that this is how you want to do things. I guess that its not the *default* way of doing things...wanting your baby to sleep through and wanting to do anything to make that happen iykwim so I think ppl are just assuming well your baby isn't sleeping through so you MUST be looking for ways to stop it happening etc etc and they are trying to help even though they aren't helping! Maybe even go on and on about how much u love the special middle of the night cuddles etc

I hope this isn't annoying or that its not the kind of response you are looking for but just thinking ppl probably don't mean to upset u and maybe saying something will stop future comments??