Well done on doing this Astrid!

With regards to DH, I find he just stimulates her. I make showers relaxing, but he makes them fun. Do you think that a fun shower is too much before bed?
Here too. But DH always wants to do baths, so I let him. And early on I realised how much both he and the babes enjoy it.....he plays mad bath cames and tickles etc etc.

The look of relief when they are then having sleepy cuddle quiet time with me.....it is almost as if the last bursts of energy are all used up then & they just reax into my arms.

Maggie will soon realised the order of things and start getting into her own groove. You are doing a great job.