I am continuing, just going to tweek what I am doing at night. I think rather than keep her in the bedroom the whole time, I will bring her out after gettting her dresses and offering her a BF. We will just keep things quiet for her and when she looks relaxed I will take her back to the bedroom.

Sherie - I have wished for the day that I will find her asleep on the floor. At times she does seem close, she will lay down for a few seconds, then suddenly wake and crawl off. Maybe one day she will get the hang of it.

I am not going to give up, I just need to find a way that suits all of us. Not sure how it will go tonight, she only had a 20 minute nap at midday and I only got her down for another nap just before 5.

Thanks for all the advice and support so far, I really do appreciate it.