kass - if you don't already have it, the "wonder weeks' book is great with this kind of stuff - it gives rough time-lines for unsettled periods etc. Our local library has a copy, maybe check with them? Else there's a whole thread on it in the "stickies" in this forum.

Also kass, is she sleeping during the day? DF had a theory that keeping our Pip awake during the day would give better sleeps, the opposite was true! So make sure you put her down for her day naps regardless of how badly she sleeps at night, it may just help a little.

Good luck!