Oh Sarah - I know the feeling EXACTLY! hehe. Tallon's sleeping has improved a great deal over the last few months whilst co-sleeping, so we haven't really been sleep deprived, but he would always wake, reach for me (actually he'd grab a handful of my hair .. and yes.. I've tried changing this to a fluffy toy or something.. isn't working! LOL) and go straight back to sleep. I know their ages are different, but I agree it's probably a separation thing. We're fortunate in a way I guess coz when I put him in his own bed at night, if he wakes, which he usually does, he just gets himself up and comes in to us.. I don't have to do anything except help him up onto our bed and we all go back to sleep.

We're also the same, in that daddy just won't do! I keep saying to DH.. what are you going to do when I'm in hospital? I have a feeling both of them will be camping out with me & bubs in teh hospital LOL. aah well.. we just take things as they come.

Could you perhaps put Zander on a mattress in your room so you don't actually have to get up? It might at least get you through the next couple of months if morning sickness & fatigue really kick in.

I wonder if there's such a thing as a voice activated cd player LOL.. so if he calls out, it plays your voice saying "it's ok, mummy's here, go back to sleep" hehehe.

Hope you don't get too worn out!