I co-slept with my first, but after dh and i got together we made the decision not to, only as DH rolls around alot, and because we watched his sister rock her first to sleep, and co sleep... now her child is nearly 4, and wont go to his own bed at all, and insists to be cuddled to sleep. She now has 2, (dont know when they were able to get time alone to conceive!) and never has time to spend with #2 as #1 is very clingy all the time.