4 months have gone passed and I have not got pregnant. All of my family, including grandparents, aunties and mother conceived within the 1st or 2nd month!! My mum conceived within a month when she was 30, and again at 33. I am only 25 and I am felling something is wrong now as 4 months have passed.

When I was 19 I was with a guy that was impotent due to drugs I suspect. One day he went and got some shampoo from the bathroom and put a lot of it inside me to act as lubricant so he could force his limp penis in. And the next day I noticed really bad internal and external swelling and I started getting my period, but the blood had nowhere to come out due to the swelling, and took a while to come out, and the swelling went away gradually. But about a week later I got blood in my urine and it hurt really badly when I did a wee. I was wondering if this could have caused an infection inside and maybe damaged the tubes or the womb??? Does anyone know?? Sorry if this is TMI... If I go to the doctor they will not do anything as have not been ttc for over a year.