Hi Molli

it can often take many months to conceive, but if you are worried about a past infection then please visit your GP and ask for testing. Did you visit your GP when you had blood in your urine and what was the outcome then?
I know it can take many months, it's just that everyone in my family conceived so quickly, including my mum and she was in her 30's!

i am only 25 so I kind of thought it would happen quickly but oh well.

I didn't visit the gp when I had blood in my urine as I was overseas and didn't get my act together. But it went away after a couple of days and I thought all was fine.