lady-Tess, He has always enjoyed a drink or two, but probably a bit more in the last 2 years. I am sorry for your loss I will try to negotiate

Frangipani, so I guess it's not all that bad. I consider myself to be a lot more relaxed this year than last year. I think I have excepted the fact that it may not happen in the near future I only chart to know what cycle day I am and I have just been able to use OPK's (never worked in past) So with any luck we will get lucky this year.

Taurean, you lucky duck!! What I would give to have life go as planned, if so I would have a 2 year old running around and maybe another on the way! Thanks

Thanks for your replies ladies, I always thought DH was drinking too much, but seems it's pretty normal to have a drink most nights. So DH can keep his drinks I suppose