I agree - still quite young. I also agree that some men never seem to think they're 'ready' either. DH took a lot of convincing, and I must admit, he did it coz I wanted to.. but we both turned 30 last year, so our ages came into it too. But he NEVER pictured himself as a dad, so had no yearning to 'grow up' and become a dad. And he now LOVES being a dad, and we're trying for another one! (Talking him into having #3 will be a hard job tho I can tell you! lol)

Being so young tho, perhaps she could get him to commit to an age at which he's prepared to start trying for a baby regardless? OK.. I'm not wording this right LOL.. but perhaps he could agree to start when he's 25 or something.. and then at least it doesn't feel like a never ending battle for her, and it gives him a bit of time to get used to the idea.

It's good that he wants to have some money etc. Perhaps get a solid plan in place that involves planning for a baby, so she feels lilke they're doing 'something' towards getting a bub.