hey there all.. im after a little bit of advise..

i went off the pill three months ago all in the idea of starting to try...

all of our friends seem to get help from their parents to buy property.. have children and in general get through life..

we dont get help like getting money from our parents and to be honest we dont want the help coz i think you do appreciate your own things when you have saved for them.. not to say that its a bad thing getting help either..

anyway ill get to my point.. my question is.. do you buy a house first or have your children..

buying a house you may need to put off having children until you have paid a bit off your house so you can take the time off.. then on the other hand waiting.. you may waste time and either never get around to it.. or not be able to fall because u have waited too long.

im 25 and my DH is 26 sooo does any one have any advise.. ui know we should do what we think is right but how do you know? it seemed all our friends were having children.. but now they all seem to be buying.. getting married etc.. we are married.. now its children or house?