hey gals thanks for the heads up.. i really appreciate it.. nah im not one of those who does what their friends are going.. that came accross wrong..

just my parents well lmy dad was in the defence force so there wasnt a need to buy a house when traveling so much so they had their children early.. i like the idea of having them early and still enjoying them throughout their lives.. my DH's dad was 30 when he was born.. so he is not as in touch with things now.. maybe its jsut his personality but i would love to be able to paint our own babies room too if that makes sense...