Am totally over this confusion and stuff.

For no good reason I can fathom I'm really emotional. On FB, my sister made a comment that watching her step-daughters child born was the most rewarding experience of her life, and she didn't mention her own kids, so I asked to clarify, because if it was me saying what she said and I had kids, I would have said "next to having my own children, it was the most rewarding experience of my life" but she didn't and I asked to clarify (yes, being a bit dumb blonde I guess, don't know why my brain just isn't working) so she got stroppy and started swearing and abusing me.
Normally I'd just get irritated and say 'game on' and turn around and fly abuse right back, but no, not today, I sit here like a wounded puppy CRYING!!!! I don't cry about this stuff!