Infact we have been trying for 13 months and have just done the testing and get the results this afternoon.
I do not know whether to hope that maybe there is something wrong and it is easily fixed (as then we will have an answer) or to hope that there is nothing wrong and continue the frustraiting cycles although my doctor told me that some couples have nothing wrong with them and just are incompatable so I do not know.
I suggest getting the testing and at least then you will know what you are dealing with.
We tried for about 14 months before becoming pregnant with our DD. Like you, we were doing everything "right", it just took that long. We didn't go for testing, and she was conceived naturally. We have never used birth control of any sort, and our three girls are about two years apart.
Hope you find some good answers soon.
We tried for about 18months with no luck and then we were keen to start the testing and had DP booked for sperm count etc for starters and the dr said to give it another month and BD on days 10/13/16/19 & 21 (we had just been doing it all the time!) and we got preg that month!
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