well my mum knew before i told her. i rang her and she said 'are you pregnant?' i said yes i was!!! i couldnt belive it. she told me she was at work and just in the middle of doing her job turned to my dad (they work together) and said 'holly is pregnant and she hasnt bloody told me yet'. how wierd is that?!?? especially cause no one knew i was off the pill and trying. i also knew my DD would be a girl from early on. i had to find out at the 18 week scan because i didnt want to be bonding with the girl that i knew i would have and then on the off chance it turn out to be a boy at birth.. i think that would have really thrown me. oh and a few weeks before she was born i gues si was getting a little stressy, but i had a dream where i was holding her and i rubbed my lips across the babys head and it was all soft and warm and i knew everything would be ok! :-)