:hugs and support:

Sometimes it just plain sucks how stressful this journey can be. You're not being a sook- you have every right to feel emotional and stressed in this situation.

Only you will know when the right time to tell DH is and in the meantime you can vent to all of us on BB as much as you need to.

Men can just plain suck at discussing their emotions sometimes, but it does sounds like you need to try to sit down with your DH and discuss how you both feel about your loss some day. (But I don't know if now is the right time to do that or not.) Regardless of how this cycle turns out, continuing to TTC is bound to bring up these issues over and over again so you'll both need to deal with them eventually.

I hope you have a sticky BFP and smooth sailing for the next 9 months!