Thanks Cailin I've jsut got to be a bit more assertive I suppose.

Lucy - I know what you mean about having a rep for being a bit of a lush - it will be really obvious if I don't drink!! I like your idea though of having mixed drinks that way you can just have the mix!! Also just taking a glass and sipping!

I also thought accepting a glass of wine and then when DH has gone through half of his discretely swap for my glass - poor DH will be sloshed!!!

Hayseed - now that's funny - that would really steer them away from thinking about TTC!!! Starts some funny rumours!! =D>