We weren't going to tell them until we were pregnant...

Unfortunately, we got a false BFP, told them because we were so sure I was pregnant... and now we are having to go through the pain of having to un-tell them... We are telling them that even though it didn't work out this time, we are going to keep trying - so now they will know... in some ways telling them takes a lot of the pressure off - they can understand why you may be stressed out, why you don't feel like socialising very much, and why (in our case where they are all so far away) we may suddenly turn around and not go visit when we originally were...

BW