I too have to go back to work... i have always looked at our priorities and wondered if they are around the wrong way....but we built our beautiful home with pride, and with having babies in mind....but unfotunately this means with a mortgage and my income being a massive chunk of our overall budget.....I will have to go back to work depending on where in the term it is we give birth. Plus I wouldnt want to put that added strain onto an already exhausted/over worked hubby.

If we concieve this month...it wont be the ideal 6 months I was hoping for....but 4 month....i would start the following year off fresh.