Thanks for your thoughts, I don't doubt our commitment to eachother, and I know all he wants is for us to have children together, but to be honest, I think we both feel pressure to conceive soon, we are both in our mid thirties. When the right time of my cycle comes, the 'pressure to perform' can seem overwhelming. I know this might sound lame, and that we need to just get over it, but it's what I really feel.