Hi Lizzie, I'm hearing you with the 'mid-30s' thing. I've just turned 35 and it's definitely added a sense of urgency to TTC. But I remind myself that chronological age and biological age can differ and I've led a healthy lifestyle so it will happen when it does. There is nothing 'lame' about the way you're feeling at all! Just try to relax a bit, do some things that are nice, and nurture yourself and DP, I'm sure you'll be in a happier space soon! :-)