the guys at work (all of which were at our wedding last nov) say that my DH must love me VERY MUCH if he is willing to have a whopping great needle stuck in his balls so we can have kids.

I don't know how DH is going to take it when we do start to TTC, when I have to sniff etc. He has 3 kids, 2 of which he hasn't seen for over 4 years and it is killing him, the other is from a one nite stand who didn't bother telling him she was pregnant until after bub was born so he doesn't have much to do with either of them. I know he misses his two sons, we're just hoping that the creature of an x (geeze i have some names for females in my life - my new sil is "thing", our stalker is "it" and dh's x is "creature") hasn't done too much lasting damage to the boys and that when they get a bit older (they're 14 & 12) that they'll want to see their father. If they had been younger we would have fought for full custody of the boys, but at the age they are their wishes are taken into consideration in family court, we've been advised we can't even get a visitation order to stick.