thanks for all your thoughts girls. Yes, I think sharing the CM info will be a step too far for me.

When I first told DP I'd like him to get involved in plotting fertility, he said, "I'm always fertile, my little boys are always ready to go." ! Lol.

I've dangled a carrot and said if he does the temp charting on his own, really, he could tell me I'm fertile and we have to DTD for days and days in a row and I'd be none the wiser. Well, I think I might cotton on but he'd still get a few 'freebies' I'm sure. Not that I want us to just be DTD to conceive, but you know what I mean.

Now I've got to gather up some info for him. He is a bit of an obsessive type so I think once I start involving him, he'll be all over it.