......but how many of you out there got pregnant first go?

We're kind of TTC. This month my temp didn't rise untill day 18, which was also in line with a positive OPK on day 16, which in itself is strange cause I normally O on about day 15. anyway I'm only 2nd day after AF is due and have some strange cramp type pains that I don't normally get and basal temp hasn't gone down yet. Pregnancy test last night came back negative.

Here's what I'm thinking......would be 1. wierd new pains bringing on AF, 2. just late AF which would be ok cause then would be sustaining a 14 day luteal phase, or 3. pregnant but not showing on the test.

I think it's just wishful thinking cause how can we be that lucky for it to happen straight away???????

No other signs of pregnancy to speak of, except these crampy pains.

I think i'm over analysing something simple???

help bring my sanity back!