Hi Juleswa!

Its a good question (and I'm glad you asked!).

Im on my first month of TTC as well, and since I had it all planned out (was going to temp, and use OPK and all sorts of things!), and had a spacko cycle...I'm left wondering if I'm pg yet myself!

My mum was pg first time with all 3 of us kids, and hopefully its in the genes.

My problem is I AF, was off the pill as of then, then, 2 weeks later (3 days before middle of cycle, around O time), I AFd again!
So, by my rough calculations (just going by number of days, which isn't really accurate I know), hubby and I BD ON the day I should O!!!! Perfect timing without even thinking about it.
Ive had the sorest BBs I've ever had (to the point that my pjs rubbing on nipples was irritatingly sore!...sorry for the TMI), and I have had AF style cramps for the last 3 days...>AF is due saturday.

I've done a few (yes...a few...I'm a sad sad woman) HPTs but all are BFN.

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you that you get a BFP in the next few days...

Hopefully by monday I'll have good news myself, but I'm pretty sure, I'll get AF right on schedule.

Also thanks to everyone on the forum for their stories and help, this place is awesome, and I wish everyone lots of baby dust and speedy BFPs!!